Oil Blends for Smoothing Relationships 

Written By Char Jung

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There are beautiful essential oil blends that support connection, intimacy, trust, and emotional harmony in relationships and marriage. These blends work through both the emotional body and energetic field, and they can be used in rituals, massage, diffusers, or as sacred anointing oils.

Essential oils speak right to the heart of emotional + energetic connection.

How Essential Oils Support Deepening Relationships

They shift the emotional state.

Essential oils can regulate the nervous system, reduce stress, and elevate mood — helping partners show up with greater patience, calm, and empathy. Oils like lavender, bergamot, and frankincense help dissolve emotional tension so deeper conversations can unfold.

They open the heart chakra.

Oils like rose, geranium, and ylang ylang energetically stimulate the heart center, inviting more love, compassion, and emotional vulnerability. This is key in creating safe, nurturing intimacy — both emotionally and physically.

They spark sensuality + presence.

Some oils activate the sacral and root chakras, supporting pleasure, embodiment, and attraction. Oils like patchouli, sandalwood, jasmine, and orange boost libido, while grounding the energy in sensual presence and connection.

They promote spiritual attunement.

When used with intention, essential oils help partners align on a soul level — deepening emotional resonance, intuition, and mutual healing. Frankincense, clary sage, and myrrh help couples feel held in divine energy and spiritual union.

They amplify ritual and intention.

Essential oils become a sacred anchor in rituals — from full moon love ceremonies to everyday acts like lighting a candle or anointing one another with oil. These actions infuse relationships with presence, devotion, and sacredness.

Heart Harmony Blend

For emotional openness, forgiveness, and deeper connection.
Ingredients:

  • Rose (unconditional love, heart chakra)

  • Geranium (emotional balance, intimacy)

  • Lavender (peace + calm)

  • Bergamot (vulnerability, joy)
    Use: Diffuse during conversations, add to bath, or anoint heart space before reconnecting.

Passion & Intimacy Blend

For sensual connection, romance, and sacred union energy.
Ingredients:

  • Ylang Ylang (sensuality, feminine energy)

  • Sandalwood (grounding, divine masculine)

  • Patchouli (body connection + rooted love)

  • Orange (playfulness and attraction)
    Use: As a massage oil or sensual ritual blend.

Soul Partnership Blend

For deep soul-aligned communication and trust.
Ingredients:

  • Frankincense (sacred truth, spiritual connection)

  • Clary Sage (clarity and divine feminine intuition)

  • Cypress (growth and letting go)

  • Jasmine (divine love, spiritual marriage)
    Use: Before relationship check-ins, during couple's meditations, or in wedding rituals.

Ways to Use These Blends

  • Anointing: On wrists, heart, or third eye before connecting

  • Diffusing: In shared spaces like bedrooms or sacred altars

  • Massage: Blend with carrier oil for loving touch rituals

  • Ritual: Use in Full Moon or New Moon relationship intentions

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May this guide be a vessel for remembrance - of your wholeness, your capacity to love, and your divine connection. You are worthy of sacred love in every form.

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Char Jung
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